Something happened a few years ago that really poisoned my view of being vulnerable around partners.
Today I had my first psych session about dealing with it.
I’m really proud of myself.
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(not really relevant to the OP but how did you do that gigantic hugs emoji?)
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Thanks kitten! This is an interesting development, and honestly something ought to have known
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I just wanted to let you all know that I’m currently in Idaho, the American home of potato, and there is a microwave in my hotel room.
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Oh no, can’t do a shitload of yard work today. Anyway -
You must be shattered.
Heartbroken. So are the cats, draped themselves despondently all over me seeking comfort
Accidentally got the wrong tram and had to walk through Royal Park to get where I was going. No regrets.
I thought you were going to say you had no clue where you were instead of no regrets, and I was gonna say I have no clue either
The cats did not want to let me up aside from to feed them, which was not a problem, except I had to do a Coles run.
On;ly problem was that by the time I’d peeled myself out from under, showered etc and gone down, the day was nearly over.
Eh well, I’ve been hard at it most of the week with Operation Sort Shit so a slow day certainly won’t hurt.I love blaming my cat for not doing stuff. She’s earning her keep.
Miss Meow is “helping” me study by walking over the keyboard, walking in front of the screen and rubbing her face on the corners to the whole thing wobbles.
Little dog is helping me get motivated to do stuff by sitting at my feet snoring.
Mr Woof is at the other end of the house maintaining security. We’ve had a delivery to the front door and an auction over the road so he’s been far too busy to help me out.
Busy little dog today. You must reward him.
He has just been rewarded with a walk, the most valuable treat he knows. There will of course be cuddles availble this evening too, if he can tear himself away from the front room long enough to collect.
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Every morning I greet my little dog with “Good morning princess. Would you like breakfast?” And every morning he responds with a meow. We don’t care who hears us.
Melbcat never wants to let me up to make her brekkie, she wants to keep on sleepy cuddling
Mine’s walkies. First thing in the morning sans rain, the dog gets a walk for a poo. Well after wakeup cuddles.
My dog likes a feed first so he can run outside and leave a turd in the most inconvenient spot he can find.
I have shopped till I dropped! And by dropped I mean sat down due to chronic pain. Though I have to say I have done a lot better. Got some manga’s, I even went to incub8r (for those who love artist alley at conventions this is one way to support artists. They have a lot of fan stuff, I love it!). And I got a book I’ve been wanting for a few months now.
Only downside is that I didn’t get the manga I really wanted. But I am happy with what I have. I hope everyone has had a good Saturday!
sounds cool 😊🤗
Yee. Had some burgers for din, now I’m ready for home!
New bed is setup and ready. I’ve been sleeping on a mattress on the floor for way too bloody long lol
What mattress did you get?
I got an ecosa one. Best mattress I’ve ever had but admittedly I’ve always slept on shitty hand me downs.
So the newly reincarnated clifton hotel in kew is finally open and their menu is up (which I’ve been waiting for, for 3 yrs).
Showed bboi butters the price of their bolog and pizza:
HOW does he manage to be so effortlessly photogenic??? This cat is a heartbreaker for sure.
Honestly he’s like the apex of the breed.
The owner really lucked out with this one.
You may not like it, but this is what peak purrformance looks like.
Is that the one at Kew junction? I used to live near there many years ago, and it was a complete dive.
Bboi Butters knows he can cook those at home for a fraction of the price
Yea that one. It’s been through a few owners (and has a rich and colourful history)… This new one is upmarket-ish italian.
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Just had a look at the menu myself out of curiosity, it’s not in my neck of the woods so I’m unlikely to go anyway, but… wow. Ur Bois response is apt. I don’t know what irritates me more, the prices or the irregular sizing of the numbers on the prices throughout the menu.
- Your cat is adorable
- How did you get your photo the right way up?
It’s not my kitty he’s my SIL/ bros… (honestly I want to steal him though) Take yo piccys in landscape :)
Bboi looks like he is 100% belting out the chorus in a video for a early 90’s power ballad
I’m actually a bit concerned. @RustyRaven@aussie.zone hasnt commented in 2 days and that’s highly unusual.
That does sound worrying 🤣
I’ve been here, obviously everyone has said everything that needs saying, I must have just been upvoting and not adding anything!
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my what?
Oh, I think you mean the credit for the banner artwork in my profile? If so I have removed it because I think it was an old reference and no longer applies. I’ve been crediting someone else for my own photo!
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I don’t remember what it was, but the current lizard photo is all mine! Old reference now deleted, thanks.
I find myself doing the same weirdly enough. I end up just up voting everyone and not saying anything
Oh hey. Welcome back. How was your holiday?
Thanks. The holiday was terrible, I was at work the whole time! I’m still at work ☹️ Happily I get to leave in half an hour and go home to study instead.
I hope they’re okay, the DT isnt the same without them.
I haven’t had a pimple in ages, but now I have a big juicy one right on my eyebrow, what the hell. It’s annoying and hurts a bit 😞
That is so annoying!
puberty
Hahhaa welcome to the club!
I don’t want to be a part of any club that would have me as a member
I get pimples constantly. It sucks.
Oh dear.
drink water
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I was wondering what that was about, then scrolled down… heheh
Hahaha…fuck yeah!!!
Another fun night of guitar. Came up with a really awesome part that’ll be great in another track that’s on the go. Once this one is finished it’s time to go back and do the vocals. Then I can start auditioning band members. Fun times!
Have a great night everyone :)
Today’s goals have been accomplished.
Garage organised. House cleaned (team effort). Babaganoush made. Washing on the line. Ingredients for dinner tomorrow purchased.
Time to chill.
Love that ‘goals completed’ feeling!
It wasn’t much to be honest, but I felt like I needed a bit of a win today. Waiting for food delivery now (okay missus went to get it) and cracked open my first beer.
Windows are open, nice breeze through the house.
Feeling good all around.