Indian metal band Bloodywood has the best take on the “all men” issue:

Not all men?
Yes all men!
Need all men for what we’re solving
Can’t be what it’s been but we’re evolving

The patriarchy privileges every man, which means every man needs to fight the system. If every man who hears the message and isn’t an abuser stands up and does something, we can end the patriarchy. It’s not “every man is guilty”, it’s “every man is responsible, and we can end it together.”

And the rest of the song is about punching rapists.