• money_loo@lemmy.world
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    1 year ago

    Do they?

    School supplies and materials?

    Costs of transportation?

    Extracurricular activities?

    Uniforms or dress codes?

    Costs to eat?

    Tutoring costs because your kid is in public school?

    Technology access requirements for the modern world like tablets or computers with specific often paid software?

    Field trips and special projects?

    I dunno, it’s all starting to add up to a little more than free.

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      1 year ago

      Unless you want the kids to grow up to be completely undeniably stupid, education has to happen at some point. Babysitters aren’t trained for or paid enough for that. Teachers aren’t paid enough for that.

      Also all the costs you’re adding up are still nothing in comparison to having to pay a babysitter a livable hourly wage for 40+ hours a week, and then still have to feed and clothe the kids etc because the babysitter isn’t covering that for you out of their own pay.

      So yes, on the point alone that you don’t have to personally employ someone on a full-time basis and pay them out of your own pocket just to make sure your kid doesn’t burn the house down while you’re gone, it is cheaper.

      Don’t want to incur such costs? Don’t have kids that you have to do something with during the day.

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      Stupidly pedantic.

      Why don’t you just add every single expense incurred in their life to your list?

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          Oh please, shit like “tutoring costs” or “cost to eat” are entirely disingenuous - ones some trust fund shit, and the other ignores the fact that children not in school still have feeding costs, for the actual few core things transport/supplies/etc. any developed nation will have a means of access for those who need it.