• MonkderDritte@feddit.de
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    5 months ago

    Torture? Why people have such trouble with their romantic interest seeing pictures of you naked when you looked totally different?

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      5 months ago

      It’s not actual torture. It’s just embarrassing your kid over something that most people would consider trivial as a form of ribbing them.

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          You’d sure think so from some of these responses.

          But I do enjoy the person who thinks you need to get consent from a baby to ethically take its picture.

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            5 months ago

            We’re talking about in the nuddy here, in which case you really should have a good case for taking that photo.

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              The good case is that the child was just born and didn’t come out clothed. Something many of you don’t seem to understand.

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              5 months ago

              So many of you think babies come out clothed.

              You also have this absolutely ludicrous idea in your heads that having a naked photo of your baby is child pornography. And yet none of you have an example of a parent facing legal repercussions for it. And somehow that doesn’t clue you in that it is, in fact, not child pornography.

              And then there’s the Finnish guy who is telling you all what prudes you are. One of the few sane takes.

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                Seems like these people are sexualizing babies and then making you seem like the crazy one. It’s kind of insane.

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                Thanks, please carry on telling me what kind of ideas I have. Forgive me for thinking babies have some rights.

                No one said it’s child porn. It’s just that when parents show off your naked baby pictures it gets uncomfortable for everyone, as many here have expressed.

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                    5 months ago

                    Multiple people have also said it’s wrong to do that, so… carry on cherry picking I guess. But sure, if you think it’s ethical to go around flashing your kids genitals, then carry on I guess. You can’t fix stupid.

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                Naked photos of children is pretty much the definition of CP, yes.

                A parent is unlikely to face prosecution unless they share the photos, but that doesn’t mean it’s legal.

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              If it’s child porn, you show me one single parent who has gotten in trouble for just taking a picture of their baby when it’s naked and showing that picture to their adult child’s partner.

              One single parent.

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        5 months ago

        Wrong, it is a form of mental torture and a violation of your privacy and consent

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          I keep asking for evidence that anyone, anywhere has had lasting mental health damage from this and congratulations, you’re the latest to just assume it happens without evidence.

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            You’ve shown in your replies to numerous comments that you are ignoring the personal accounts of others sharing their experiences they don’t like it and for some reason want peer reviewed sources

            If you where to compile the data of these responses into data that would form the basis of a paper

            Why is it so important to defend this for you that you ignore anything that doesn’t conform to your own biases and views on it flying squid

            Your wanting of peer reviewed evidence or psychological evidence seems to stem from the ignorance of anything that doesn’t conform to your views and biases on this

            And your responses to people ignoring their accounts of not liking it comes of as rude, distasteful and ignorant

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              What personal account? I have not seen a single personal account. Please link to one.

              All I have seen is people who have claimed it would traumatize them if it happened to them, which they cannot know.