Since a lot of women have started to call their female friends “girlfriends”, I have to wonder how women with actual girlfriends have been dealing with this lol

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    10 months ago

    I’m neither a lesbian nor a woman but the word “partner” is pretty universally understood.

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        10 months ago

        On this vein, I was a policeman 10 years ago… and was talking about my awesome partner* (a policewoman) to a friend of mine who I hadn’t seen in a bit. And she totally thought I was talking about my ‘girlfriend partner’… I still chuckle a little thinking about it.

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          Haha, I was half joking because I only know police refering to partners from US police shows. Nice that I actually had valid point :D

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          The point of speaking is to express an idea clearly to listeners. So, since this usage of ‘partner’ to mean the other person in a romantic relationship has become popular, to be specific I say ‘business partner’.

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      Yeah I thought about that one too, but it feels too broad of a term. Partner could be used to refer to a work colleague. And I’d feel really tempted to add “in crime” at the end lol