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  • Hormones absolutely affect more than cosmetic things.

    I started hormone replacement therapy 2 months ago. I spent four decades before that wanting to commit suicide.

    I still mostly look like a man and my mental health has vastly improved. I’m less defensive less reactionary more open. I get a long better with everybody in my life.

    Including myself.

    Being congruent with your gender both chemically and socially helps people feel more joy happiness and self-acceptance.

    That is not cosmetic and you have no idea what you’re talking about.

    Like I said in an earlier comment you’re not a doctor. And you cite doctors that aren’t specialists in the field who have an agenda.

    Seriously mind your own business and let parents and doctors that actually understand this stuff take care of kids that need life-saving treatment.

    And while you’re at it maybe look up the study that was just done about how suicide rates in trans youth are 70% higher states deny health care to trans youth.

    In other words educate yourself before having an opinion about something you know nothing about.


  • Billionaires and large corporations are destroying our future. I think placing the blame where it belongs isn’t playing the victim but calling attention to ongoing abuse.

    I don’t personally advocate for violence but rather solidarity.

    A global strike would be an appropriate action. As would raiding corporate stores for food and clothing. But people’s material conditions make it hard to go without a paycheck and still survive. And state violence makes the idea of stealing from large corporations frightening.

    It’s all dialectics.

    But that doesn’t mean large corporations aren’t to blame for our planet burning. And blame should be placed where it belongs. Not on those being abused and suffering.







  • I think whoever framed the presumption of innocence and proof beyond a reasonable doubt felt that way.

    Jurors themselves are complicated. Some people are racist, some people are just hateful, some people respect authority so much that they’ll just believe whatever the district attorney says. All of these conditions can create a situation where the jury won’t reach consensus easily .

    And pretty much everybody just wants to get back to brunch and taking care of their families.

    I think what you are speaking to is values. What I’m talking about is emotions as they are felt in the moment and how those will affect a jury’s outcome.

    Hence people are not computers.









  • Hi sky. Sorry you’re struggling right now.

    I’m also transfem. The Trevor project is about the only suicide hotline I trust. I’ve had the pigs show up calling other numbers. And I have police trauma so that’s a no go.

    Anyway, a lot of what you posted sounds like it could be the dysphoria talking. You feeling like you’re disgusting and worrying others view you that way too.

    This isn’t my primary account. I mostly hang out on hexbear in the trans mega. It’s been a huge support for me.

    Shit can feel dark sometimes. Try to do something gender affirming. You’re not disgusting. Trans is beautiful. And beauty isn’t about looks, but having the courage to be ourselves.

    Much love comrade. If you ever hang out in the trans mega on hexbear. Say hi to comrade_rain. I hear she has the heart of a frog.