agreed but i woudnt call it won just yet lets see what happens after the 3rd party apps stop working and people who may not have been paying attention get affected
Defederating means that for all intents and purposes beehaw and lemmy.world dont exist to each other its like if you and another person just agreed to not talk anymore and deleted each others phone number the posts that have federated over still exist but they wont be updated in any way
Defederating means that you as the user cannot interact or see comunities on those instances from this one and would need another account on a instance that is federated with them
technically their called bezele but in reality we just call them marshmellows most of the time as thats what written on the packaging