Am American. May I join?

When someone tells you who they are, believe them.

I’ve had to train myself to take an exceptionally large dick because my hubby has some pretty insane girth. It is a lot like chugging a drink because you need to position yourself in a way that completely opens up your throat and you can’t flinch or swallow because you’ll gag. Most people can’t do it for long if at all because it usually takes practice. OP must be a natural.

As someone who does systems administration which includes numerous government owned database servers, this is news to me.

As a gay man who passes as straight, you can get a lot of gal pals just by treating women as friends instead of potential partners. A lot of women don’t really need a relationship, they just want a friendship.