Feminine Boys - Blåhaj Lemmy
lemmy.blahaj.zone
This is an alternate version of the Feminine Boys community on Reddit. Like that one it is an SFW text based community for the discussion on the Femboy experience. ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- ### Rules: 1. No image posts. This is a text based discussion community so posts can’t contain an image (exception for Thumbnails of articles which may be linked). Images can be included in post body if they add context to the discussion or help describe something. Just remember this community’s primary purpose is text based discussion. (This also applies to comments). 2. No NSFW content. Don’t engage in discussions of fetish or sexual content here. Sexuality can be discussed here. Discussion of anatomy should be depersonalized. 3. No being a creep. Don’t ask for Dates, sex, DMs, hookups, anything of a sensitive nature like that. Do not post asking for personal information. 4. No medical discussion.Try not to discuss medical issues as they are prone to incorrect or misinformation. Additionally DO NOT share advice for DIY medical procedures (this is dangerous and will earn you a permanent ban). 5. No Invalidation Gender Identity. Specifically no calling people eggs, also known informally as egging, which is trying to insist that a femboy (or any other GNC person) must be trans due to being GNC, it is hurtful and invalidating, makes people doubt themselves, and for that reason can be considered a form of gaslighting and abuse. If a person is questioning their gender you may offer them advice but you must not tell them they are trans with any certainty. Also Rule 4 applies heavily here, do not push people to do HRT or worse DIY-HRT. In addition to those rules there is absolutely no homophobia or transphobia allowed in this community whatsoever. 6. No bigotry of any kind. Absolutely no racism, sexism, ableism or any other form of bigotry will be tolerated here. 7. No bad-faith politics. Don’t engage in bad-faith politics here, this could include alt-right conservative politics but also anything tankie related. We’ll know when we see it. Don’t test us. 8. Be nice to each other. The golden rule.
  • ShaunaTheDead@kbin.social
    5·
    1 year ago

    I personally love that these boys can still fully identify as men and use he/him pronouns while still exploring their personal styles and fashion choices. Men deserve the freedom to explore and be creative with their appearance. Being pretty shouldn’t be exclusive to women!

  • Franzia@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish
    5·
    1 year ago

    Power to ya and I know I wish I had a place like this when I was a teen. I hope this place is a very very safe place, with thorough and trustworthy moderators. Knowing Blahaj.zone, I think it will be.

    • First Majestic Comet@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOPEnglish
      4·
      1 year ago

      Ok yeah, I worded it a bit badly, I edited the text so it’s hopefully more clear.

      No Invalidation Gender Identity. Specifically no calling people eggs, also known informally as egging, which is trying to insist that a femboy (or any other GNC person) must be trans due to being GNC

      Basically it’s saying they must be a girl (trans) because they dress like one. Was a popular thing to do in r/Egg_irl a while back (at the expense of the femboys featured) which is where the term egg came from and why it became known as ‘egging’.