Nobody, the OP seems like recipe for disaster, things needs their balance. We can’t just roll around and say that all kids are amazing, great, perfect and their accomplishments are the best thing in the world all the time. If we do that we end up with a society of dull, inept. unable to collaborate, deal with hardship people.
I’m not saying you should psychologically obliterate children, I’m just saying they also need to be given bad feedback in honest ways and learn that the world isn’t all pink and participation medals.
Who hurt you?
Nobody, the OP seems like recipe for disaster, things needs their balance. We can’t just roll around and say that all kids are amazing, great, perfect and their accomplishments are the best thing in the world all the time. If we do that we end up with a society of dull, inept. unable to collaborate, deal with hardship people.
I’m not saying you should psychologically obliterate children, I’m just saying they also need to be given bad feedback in honest ways and learn that the world isn’t all pink and participation medals.
This image says it all:
This is a pessimistic, almost nihilistic view of human nature and development.