Artist name is truewagner, posts a lot of amazing flyers like this.
Fwiw, don’t punish your kids, it’s not an effective way to get them to change their behavior.
Stew that blinds you for a day.
A stew that makes you blind for one day
All the beatings taught me pain is temporary and this is the worst they can do. I just have to outlast. They called me metal butt cause I stopped caring about the belt and hangers. Gma upgraded to pans.
I laughed when my mom broke her bread paddle across my back…
Hope she didn’t use the pointy part afterwards.
I wanted to please. I suppressed my own needs, because I so badly didn’t want to be the problem. Harsh words were just as bad as a belt to me, so when I got the belt (unfairly, because their day was worse not because I was) I learned none of it was about me. So very quickly, I resented all of it
And now, suddenly as an adult I’ve again become the fuck up to them. I never asked for anything - I take what’s given, I open up when I’m pressed, but I just live.
And still, they treat me as a failure. I made six figures before I was 25 - which was my stupid goal. I wanted to die. Now and I make a fraction of that to work a few hours a week. Doing something that matters. I don’t want a partner, because I don’t want to be tempted to bring a child into this world.
Nothing will ever be good enough, because I don’t share their values. It sucks because I had a panic attack the last couple times my parents called me… They always increase my stress with made up fears
You sound like my mom with her mother. Breaks my heart to watch it for decades. She refuses to admit that her mom is incapable of loving her the way she wants. At one point mom gave Grandma whole paycheck and got an allowance. This is like 10 years ago a ~50 yo women. All of us are going wtf. Result was no change, constant verbal abuse continues. I could write a book but short is Mom will do anything to keep the peace.
I always say I don’t understand why mom or grandma are how they are because actually had a loving mom. Love your kids.
I misread as 1 day binding stew and figured it was food poisoning.
Dog shit parenting 101: How do I punish my child for X?
Effective parenting: Why is my kid doing X?
P.S. Step 1 is asking them.
Why did you bite hair? " I don’t know"
Yes, but step 2 is still ‘1 day blinding stew’.
Step 2 is shaving your head
Already did that. Can confirm toddlers like touching the scalp but don’t bite it.
Feed her a stew made of hair.
feed her stew made by a blind person’s hair for 1 day
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No it’s a form of minor punishment. Not too harsh
I just assume stuff like this is guerrilla art
Alan Wagner’s art
Pretty sure it’s a pretty old folk tale story that exists in multiple countries and cultures. Don’t know where it originated from. But it’s basically the opposite of local.
It’s a TikTok meme. If your child bites your hair, give them a blinding stew.
As far as I can tell, this image was first (and most likely created by 1 person) and the tiktoks are based on that.
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nah, just another piece by Alan Wagner, goes by @truewagner (on IG at least)
are you fx0mt’s 15th alt account? asking because of the pfp
idk who that is, sorry. Just the first decent option I found in my gallery lol
I have no idea who fxomt is either. @gandalf_der_12te@lemmy.blahaj.zone must be hallucinating.
I didn’t realize Rafe15 had started giving parenting advice.
I regret logging on today
Incredible
they that’s the funi I stole some time ago and posted here!
or not… somehow my post about this… Disappeared? but I’m pretty sure I posted this… OOOH it was on the other 196 which I have blocked now, now I get it.
“will_steal_your_post”
Stealing? Me? I would never
post
i kno, i wantd to not mek the funi becuz i alrdi mek funi about name som time ago… so i didn wana do funi agn, bt alsuu yeaa i guess… fine - - hav it ur way ~ ~ <3
Children, this was the Internet prior to 1995.
Looks like a job for a stew that makes you blind for a day
Yeah, this is one of the weirder memes.
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