Filmmaker Jeff Baena – best known for directing films like “Life After Beth” and “The Little Hours,” and the husband of Aubrey Plaza, has died … TMZ has learned.

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    I knew Aubrey was married, but I couldn’t name her husband if my life depended on it. I’m sorry he was in so much pain, and I hope Aubrey is okay.

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    Geez… I swear to god if my obituary opens with Wife’s Name’s husband, I’d be pretty bummed.

    Suicide, also. Dang.

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      Why? I’m my wife’s husband as much as I am anything else, and plenty of people refer to folks as “John’s friend” or “Erin’s husband” to identify them in context.

      Also, would you have known who this was if they didn’t? Some would for sure, but a lot of people who care about his films still might not have put the pieces together without Aubrey Plaza’s name in there, so I don’t see the issue.

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        I don’t disagree with it being there but it wouldn’t feel great to be the leading description. “Director, filmmaker, and husband of” would emphasize his accomplishments.

        Meow that I think about it, Idk why we’re debating a TMZ headline. Sorry and good day.

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          Fair enough, but that’s such a minor difference that I can’t imagine caring about it if I, personally, were the subject. I am definitely not calling any/everyone who feels differently ego-centric, but ego is the only reason I specifically could imagine being offended by that. Not looking to start a debate over TMZ at all haha, was just wondering if there were particular issues folks had with it that I wasn’t thinking of.

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        I stated how I’d feel about it. I didn’t say you should feel that way. I guess I’m fucking wrong though, forgot I was on the internet for a moment.

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          I was curious why you felt that way, not saying you were wrong. It was an interesting reaction to the headline, so I was looking to discuss/understand it, not debate.

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            It made him feel like less of a man for a minute and he had to understand how women feel when they are diminished by being called “Mrs. <husbands name>”

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      Uhhh I’m not sure if you’ve heard about how women have it but it’s almost always like that for women

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      If he hadn’t been married to her, this article wouldn’t even behave been written.

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        Lemmys funny, they’ll bitch about reddit being a circlejerk but keep downvoting reality

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          Lemmy exists because some commies got mad at being censored by capitalist pig dogs and decided to make their own Reddit on FOSS principles. With less hookers, damn you Lenin, sex work is work!

          Everything else is bullshit, this is Reddit out from under Spez’s thumb and nothing else.

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        allright dude. when I kill myself and my obituary says “actually noteworthy person’s relation, (me)” I’ll whisper how proud of them I am as I fade into the afterlife

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      Why? Most people know who Aubrey Plaza is. Most people don’t know him. It helps anchor the headline with who it is.

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      Aubrey Plaza, you must have heard of. She’s in parks and rec, Agatha all along, legion, and many other shows and movies.

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        I guess I don’t really pay attention to actors and actresses names and just recognize them from something else I’ve seen. I don’t think I’ve seen those two things after parks and rec

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      Gee thanks, I’ll be sure to tell my brain chemistry that it is just a temporary problem.

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          Sorry, youre right. Im sure your trite self-centered sayings will cure suicide forever.

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            Yeah thats clearly what I thought was going to happen when I commented it. I couldn’t possibly just be sharing the phrase that gives me personal comfort in the hopes of it would help others. What i was really doing was attacking all suicidal people because I live a perfect life and have never experienced sadness or despair at all.

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      I’ve seen every cliche about suicide there is, probably a hundred times each. None of them are even slightly convincing in any way. Only people who haven’t suffered from real depression and suicidal thoughts believe these petty words have any power.

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        Ignorant statement, this is literally what i repeat to myself in my lowest moments.

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          I feel it, but it’s maybe not the best phrase to post without this context under a post about suicide

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            I shouldn’t have to post a short story underneath a platitude to prevent people from projecting their Aunt Karen onto me.

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          I’m glad it helps you, truly, but I think for most people, this is just belittling.