• Saleh@feddit.org
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    5 days ago

    Accept that good actions will not give an immediate or always measurable result for you to observe.

    You are a social being. What matters most is often not what increases you in status, but what increases others in wellbeing or allows you to appreciate the beauty in lifem

    On your death bed you will not wish to have worked more, but probably to have spent more time with people dear to you or that you had spent more time for actions that nudge society a tiny bit more towards your values.

    Capitalism especially todays consumerism is built around manipulating you to identify yourself with superficial status. Breaking free of that will open yourself to value your time and actions as meaningful as they become meaningful, even if there is no number or title attachable to it.

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      4 days ago

      I made a vow to myself long ago, because this world’s warped ideals tend to creep up on you when you’re not looking.

      I often recite that vow any time someone dear to me apologizes for something like “taking up [my] time.”

      I tell them that I vowed to myself that I woud never, ever, regret time spent in good company. Even if it might have been a little inconvenient for whatever reason. We were put here to love thy neighbor, not to hustle and hoard.

      Simple as that. It’s kept me from losing the picture so far.