It used to be stuff for my vaping. It is better than smoking, but still a waste of money. I quit last year though!
Congrats my dude! That nicotine is a hard habit to break and I’m super proud of you for getting out from under it!
I still get cravings. Pretty sure that’ll never go away
But you feel guilty about smoking?
I felt guilty spending all that money to literally go up in smoke, going outside to feed that addiction while my wife was inside with our kid.
Meat… :( We could all live without, but this damn learned behavior…
Have you actually tried making vegetarian meals at home?
Don’t try to eat less meat, try to eat more veggie. I know it’s technically the same but the thought process is different. Before you know it, you had weeks without meat.
I have a lot of asian friends and their meals are always the opposite of typical American meals. It’s a ton of veggies/rice with meat as a ‘topping’ rather than meat being the centerpiece with veggies as sides. I’d love to incorporate that more but I love meat so much…
Start easy, cut out 1 animal you don’t eat too much of and go from there. Once I stopped eating beef, pork and lamb I felt weird about eating chicken, so just stopped altogether! (amongst other reasons)
Good luck on your journey!
That’s a great idea!
Another thing that helped was to hold of ‘recreating’ your favourite dishes by making them veggie/vegan, at least to start with. Since you’ll have just given up meat, you’ll be directly comparing to the meat counterpart.
There are so many amazing veggie and vegan dishes out there, have a go at making some of them first. After all you want to give yourself the best chance possible.
It certainly takes a lot of effort to change your eating behaviour, but I’ve certainly felt a lot better after making the change. Good luck and remember to start small! :)
I did so for greenhouse gases reasons. First I stopped with beef, never enjoyed lamb (poor young thing), and several others. Pork pretty much, too, but sometimes I still eat it, same with chicken. Not at home, there are amazing alternatives for sausage and ‘meat’. But when eating at restaurants, I have issues eating vegan or vegetarian due to some intolerances. And eggs are still a problem for me. But I buy from a source where male hatchlings are not getting shredded.
You could reduce your mince meat consuption by adding TVP/ soy protein crumble in it. This is what some fast food places actually do and people don’t notice the difference unless they hear about it. There are also many vegan proteins in freezer section in many stores. Tofu can be super delicious once you learn how to cook it. I think cooking yummy tofu is sign of good chef.
I would argue we shouldn’t live without it, but it does need to be cut back and less glorified. There are soo many alternatives that are healthier, cheaper, better for environment but you should still be able to have a medium rare steak and some chicken wings when you want it.
Am veggie. Agree.
well as of the ethics doing a bad thing once is still having done a bad thing, but I guess sure if you want to decrease animal suffering the fastest realistic way, getting 10 people to reduce their consumption trumps 3 people completely cutting their meat consumption. (yet you’ll still have 10 people exploiting animals for their “products” who should be living without doing just that. vegan btw)
The only thing wrong with your arguement is many don’t believe eating meat is unethical.
You are completely correct that you will get more change getting people to reduce consumption than eliminate it
As a vegetarian, we can all tell that you’re vegan. The disclaimer wasn’t necessary.
This aggressive behavior and labeling isn’t productive if your goal is to persuade people to try something entirely new to them (remove meat from their diet).
Yeah they could have left out the whole judgemental thing about animal suffering and be more encouraging. Instead they chose to be an insufferable, smug and arrogant microaggressor.
Who said anything about animal suffering? I feel like this is more about personal health…
Same! I would like to be vegan but i love a great steak, or burger, or…
The alternatives we have nowadays are so varied and some are really great at mimicking the flavour and mouth-feel of meat!
I have tried like 5 different vegan meat things now and they ranged from bad (the times they involved cheese, my god vegan cheese sucks) to “ok, but would rather just eat something that is vegan without trying to be fake meat.”
Is there any particular type of product that’s good? Brands will probably only help if you’re also in germany, but maybe fake chicken is just the wrong fake meat to buy.
A lot of them have just as much saturated fat as their meat counterparts, and can be chock-full of inflammatory seed oils. Not exactly ‘healthy.’
nah, meat is great. Just the sourcing of it is not so great. Get your meat from a local butcher where you know where the animal came from.
Or better yet, if you have the space, time and money: get your own livestock.I talked to my vegan son about buying meat from local farms. He got mad at me for wanting to only kill the happy cows.
Wow, your son has a point 😂
the animals don’t care wether their dead corpse is shipped to you from Argentina or from your local butcher that is just such a nice and friendly guy :^) they’d prefer not having their throat slit by anyone at all
They do care about how they lived their lives though. And I’d much rather like an animal which could roam around almost freely and enjoy its short life instead of one locked up in a tiny box in which it can barely move, suffering until its death.
Agreed. Ideally, the animals you eat have only one bad day in their entire life.
You apparently don’t know that most of the time, their throat is not slit to kill them, but rather animals are shot with a pneumatic bolt. Stay with the facts and you sound less aggressive.
Some of my frequent grocery purchases come in single use plastics. I wish there was another way :(.
Try searching for a “refillery” or refill station near you. They are stores where you bring reusable containers with you to fill with goods. They usually have a limited selection but it’s something and it helps.
I’ve been doing that for things like shampoo and detergents. But unfortunately I’ve got celiacs. All my food HAS to be packaged so that I know it’s safe to eat.
Starbucks coffee, and even more so, their tea. Just doesn’t seem like a good use of my money, since I can make it at home for a lot less money.
And the one made at home is probably better too. Starbucks coffee kinda sucks, especially at that price point
I felt guilty for buying a fancy coffee machine but it’s probably paid for itself over the last few years.
McDonalds. I have food at home and it’s expensive. But damn I get a craving for it
That might be your gut microbiome craving it. You can re-anchor your microbiome with new bacteria but it takes about a week or two.
I start getting cravings for strawberry banana smoothies with spinach now. Or berry smoothies. Costco sells unflavored yogurt and milk in bulk, same wity big bags of frozen berries. It’s typically replaced desserts for me because they are filling. (I also have one of those bullet shaped blenders where the lid becomes a drink cup. I have a few cups so I can just rinse the blades and then throw the cup in the dishwasher. )
I used to have those same cravings, so I know how it feels!
-Fast food. It’s so expensive.
-Alcohol. It’s unhealthy, and I use it as a crutch when I’m feeling bad.
-Animal products, due to climate change.
Kombucha taste close enough to alcohol, that sometimes I end up not drinking any at all
Energy drinks. I havw an addiction and not in the joke way.
One Rockstar a day for me. Definitely an addiction.
I drink between 8 and 10. Im actually scared and when i dont drink them my chest hurts.
You need to break yourself of that. I was at two a day for a few years and often suffered withdrawals.
How did u do it?
I stock up on those things, they’re damn expensive! But I just think about how I feel when I drink too many, the fact that it is controlling me, not the other way around and reject that. If you drink eight a day, cut back to seven, then six and so on. You’ll get there.
Ice cream. I’m addicted.
Drugs, probably.
Spent a few k on k alone.
Add up everything over the years and I’m at least 1,000,000 pennies poorer.
More good times than bad but I still feel a bit guilty when I crunch the numbers.
I do feel guilty for the amount of weed i buy. I have a couple of pounds sitting in jars, but can’t resist the next sale on something new.
Cookies… They hate when i eat something else but sometimes i do like some good old fashioned Dino Nuggets.
Micro-transactions in that one game I play.
I can easily afford it, so it’s not like I’m gambling away my family’s savings or something. However… At $10-20 a pop they aren’t so “micro” anymore. And I know it’s bad that I’m encouraging this predatory tactic. The money probably doesn’t even make it to the developers. But they’re freakin’ ships from Star Trek! I can’t help myself.
Almost everything I eat, tbh. 30+ years of being overweight will do that to you.
Have you read about emotional eating? I’m struggling with it as well.
Furniture.
Not the products themselves, but the amount of packaging to throw away every time I buy a new chair or shelving unit that comes wrapped in layers of foam and plastic. Makes me guilty how much waste there is. But buying second hand isn’t always an option.
I actually feel really guilty about buying all those single serving drinks from Dunkin’ and the convenience stores because of all of the plastic I am just putting back into the environment. I really need to stop doing this. 😾
I really enjoy iced/ cold brew coffee but always felt dumb paying $5 or more for it, especially because of the waste. I bought a cold brew pitcher and some travel mugs, and now I can have my coffee for pennies a day with no waste. Only downside is you have to remember to make it at least 12 hours before you want it.
Edit to add: Total price for the pitcher and mugs was equal to about 8 cups of coffee from a coffee shop.
I like the cold brew as well. The trouble is Dunks also wants to charge Starbucks prices for less than Starbucks quality.
Takeout. I get it a few times a week and always feel a bit guilty about it. I like supporting the local businesses but it’s expensive and the plastic containers aren’t great.
