• Susaga@sh.itjust.works
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    5 months ago

    First of all, I’m gonna call bullshit on people hitting on you. Hateful attitudes aren’t attractive.

    Second of all, if a gay person hits on me, I’d be surprised and flattered, and politely turn them down.

    Third (and more comedically), as a straight man, I would try NOT to get the willies, because I am not attracted to willies.

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      5 months ago

      You presume everything and attach the things you presume. I bet you could talk with a wall all day.

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        5 months ago

        Not sure what I presumed. I called your statement bullshit, but also justified my point of view. Meanwhile, you presumed that being creeped out by someone thinking you’re attractive is normal.

        Something tells me the wall would be a more productive conversation than you.

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          5 months ago

          You know how there’s some women who won’t have anything to do with men because they’ve had a traumatic experience? Well that shit happens to men too, and going after them like they’re evil filth is no fucking good for anyone. Fuck you and the horse you rode in on. I won’t have shit to do with Gary people because the fact of the matter is that 80% of them I’ve known haven’t approached me to “just hit on me”. They’ve tried embedding themselves in my life first so that rejection comes with repercussions financially or socially. I won’t let them near me anymore and people like you wanna go around thinking gayness makes people saints.

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            5 months ago

            Sorry, did you mean to reply to me? Because nothing you wrote had anything to do with what I said. I never went after anyone, and I never said anyone was good or bad. Morality and sexuality are entirely unrelated. All I did is doubt how popular you claim to be, given your attitude. Not sure why that’s causing so much hostility.

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                5 months ago

                Yes, so all I have to go on is your hateful attitude, which is a deeply unattractive trait. And given the stream of vitriol that you gave upon someone doubting how much men want to bone you, I’m pretty confident in that.

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                  5 months ago

                  Hateful attitude? I’m literally defending people you’re all bashing over their fears. Get fucked. YOU are hateful.

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                    5 months ago

                    What people? Why are you trying to make yourself plural? It is just you. You’re only defending yourself. And the only way you can think you defend yourself is to claim everyone else is doing what you’re doing, but you’re not.

                    It’s so ironic you call me hateful when you tell me to get fucked one sentence before, and it’s not the only time you’ve said “fuck you” this comment thread.