• cosmicrookie@lemmy.world
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    4 months ago

    I had a discussion with a guy, about consent. He argued that it is unnatural and that we are the only species who care about it. Nature only worked because females of any breed got raped.

    This comic strip subject was my point that this is not the case. Females actively chose their partners, can deny them and it is eventually them who chose when they want/can breed

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      While you are correct in your point it is still giving to much ground to his argument.

      Even if it is unnatural, who cares. Consent makes humanity happier and more stable on all fronts. If it isn’t natural it is a social technology and we use those to improve our lives every day.

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      4 months ago

      He might have a point with social mammals. But pedophilia, canibalism, child murder (and so on) are also not uncommon among social mammals. Don’t think it would be a great idea to allow all of that.

      • NιƙƙιDιɱҽʂ@lemmy.world
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        People who think that kinda shit aren’t really the brightest out of the bunch. We also didn’t evolve to sit on toilets while typing out literal shit posts to a worldwide forum, yet here I am.

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      Paying rent, having a job are all unnatural too. Pretty sure, the dude is doing those too.

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      And tell him there is a plethora of documentaries about the birds of paradise that entirely relies on female birds giving consent. There is a reason why birds vary widely by feather plumage because that is a huge factor in why the female gives consent in most species of birds. Female Eagles will withhold from mating and make the male bird retrieve her food to prove he can help raise young.

      Some would think about ducks when it comes to rape but even then female ducks evolved the cork screw vagina that indeed circumvents the effectiveness of rape. Even then the female bird decides on consent to conceive as the outcome.

      So birds evolved past humans on our archaic ideas of rape for conceiving. Bro can go back to picking his nose and eating it as far as the advise he’s bestowing to people.

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      It is also super natural for some creatures to eat it’s partners after fertilizing their eggs. Just a heads up. 👍