• morphballganon@lemmy.world
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    11 months ago

    But my family, long term partners and oldest friends? Just see me sanded down, zero personality

    I’m not sure I follow entirely. Is it possible you’re calling the high of adrenaline/new relationship energy “the real you” and once that wears off you’re not “yourself?”

    Couldn’t it be that you, like all people, are more outgoing at some times than others? And it’s all the real you?