• SnuggleSnail@ani.social
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    11 months ago

    I don’t get the gender conversation. Before you discuss, define what gender means. After you defined it, it should be clear how many types there are or can exist.

    If you can’t decide on one definition, then make up several. „Genders A“, „Genders B“, …

    It should be very simple.

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      Gender describes your sex. Or at least that’s what people want it to be.

      There are various reasons why people decide to use no gender at all or what ever. In the end it’s a creation of humans to describe how people should act accordingly.

      People who say there are only two genders are very narrow minded. Let them explain intersexual people. Checkmate.

      There is a specific group that speaks about gender all the time: The people who believe there should be 2 genders. If that was nature’s law, have a look at animals. Good luck.

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        Human brains are literal pattern-recognition and classifying machines. It’s what they have evolved for millions of years to do. We’re hard wired to observe nature, detect patterns, and classify things based on those patterns to help focus on new info and not be overwhelmed by the world.

        Gender is just a shorthand that we’ve developed for classifying people into groups, based on key commonalities about how most of us tend to look and behave.

        It’s like the names we give to colors. We can all name a handful of main colors off the top of our head, and we’ve even named a few as “primary” colors because of how they interact together. But someone would have to be an absolute fucking moron to insist that primary colors are the only “real” colors, just because the idea of primary colors has some basis in color theory.

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        11 months ago

        You’re running together gender and sex and then saying gender isn’t real. The reality is more nuanced.

        1 ) You’re born with your sex (biologically determined), 2) you’re also born with gender identity, and 3) the way you present your gender is called gender expression. So I can be born a biological male but have a woman gender identity and this would make me transgender. Now whether I choose to dress in masculine or feminine clothes this doesn’t change my sex or gender identity.

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        We could define two genders: Males are all humans larger than 175 cm Females are all that are 175cm or smaller.

        Or we take the degree by what the jaw line is curved and sort it from most masculine with strong curves to most feminine with slow elegant curves.

        We could go by genetics. Then we only have a handful of genders (xx, xy, xyy, xxy, … etc)

        What I am saying is: define what it is first, and then the discussion is very simple. By my first definition there are exactly two genders, second one has infinite, third definition has a handful of genders.