• Leela [it/its] @lemm.ee
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    11 months ago

    there are many reasons as to why there are only a couple resources. a lot of genders are only known to those who have coined them, but that doesn’t mean or invalidate the experience of those who coin the genders. every single minute, someone will coin a gender, and the only resources you have are their sources, their interviews, their statements and posts. as the gender will gain traction, there will be more and more people which will share their experiences and opinions on the gender. essentially, what you are missing is that such a gender who is yet to be fully understood by others than the coiner cannot and will not have sources beyond of what the coiner knows. sometimes, the only source for a gender is a single Tumblr post. that’s it; only a single Tumblr post or TikTok to evidence that gender as being coined. and once again with using your identity to shield yourself. yes, of course I am calling a nonbinary gay person right wing, because you can have fae/it/pup pronouns, be aethergender and puppygender, and yet still hold bigoted beliefs.

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      11 months ago

      But I’m not bigoted. I’m getting frustrated at nonsense. Are you not listening?

      Edit: I’m done. Fuck off. Go away. I’m going to bed. Goodbye. Enjoy your mind-melding or whatever the fuck. Peace

      To be clear, you didn’t win anything. I’m just walking away because my SO wants cuddles

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        11 months ago

        Alright, I hope you sleep nice and tight and sweet dreams. I’m sorry if I have been maybe too aggressive towards you and was impulsive. I hope you can look more into xenogenders and how they work one day and you’d understand that a coiner putting their own resources is totally normal behavior within the xenogender community. Until then, peace and respect.

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          11 months ago

          You really want me to look into something more, after you’ve been an absolute ass? Nah I’m good. Fuck off. Also, I love that all of your hastily added references on the wiki were removed. Normal to self-reference? Nope, not according to the admins.