• ZeroCool@feddit.chOP
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    1 year ago

    Plenty of struggling actors have a good work ethic but don’t have powerful/successful mommies and daddies giving them a foot in the door, Meg.

    It’s not dismissive to call him a nepo baby. It’s just a reflection of reality. It doesn’t make him a bad actor, it’s just acknowledging he was privileged by being the son of two very famous actors. Besides, [puts on Jeff Foxworthy mustache] If the biggest hardship you face in your life is being called a “nepo baby” then you just might be a nepo baby

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      1 year ago

      Exactly. If he was a bad actor it would be totally different. But he’s fine. And his parents are two of the top actors of their generation… He’s simply a nepo baby. It is what it is.

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        I would be grateful to be in a position to be called a nepo baby. That means my life is pretty good and I wouldn’t want to struggle unnecessarily if I don’t have to.

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      A society that gaslights itself with the lie of being based on meritocracy requires them to engage in these mental gymnastics.

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      It is true that he likely received special treatment because of his parents, and it is just as true that it is dismissive to call him a nepo baby.

      That’s a specifically derogatory infantilizing name that dismisses the entirety of an actor’s own work and attributes it solely and dismissively to their genetic legacy.

      Successful movie stars, especially those with successful parents, do need to be coddled, but infantilizing someone and misattributing all of their success and their very personhood is dismissive and insulting.

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        Successful movie stars, especially those with successful parents, do need to be coddled…

        They don’t need to be coddled, but it happens. And it’s absolutely tone deaf for people who benefit from their parents fame to deny said fame had anything to do with it.

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          “it’s absolutely tone deaf for people who benefit from their parents fame to deny said fame had anything to do with it.”

          That’s a very specific condition that most of these actors have not fulfilled, at least that I’ve come across in these articles.

          It seems, by and large, these actors say something along the lines of “of course having ______ as my parent benefits me, but that doesn’t invalidate all of my own work.”

          Then there’s more bullshit, narrow-minded bullying.

          It’s popular to bash actors right now and safe to do so, so all the bullies are pitching in.

          Nobody is calling out Picasso’s father or ernst Klimt for profiting off their famous relatives, it’s cool to bash jack quaid or Angelina Jolie, so those are the latest targets of largely unsubstantiated, whiny bullying.

          They’re people, and it’s shameful and hypocritical to bully them, especially without evidence of the very measure of ingratitude or narcissism you and your ilk are accusing them of.