I love the thought of people thinking of me obsessively and wanting to be just like me.
Jealous/envious of me? No.
Impressed by me? Yes.
Inspired by me? Double Yes.
Learn a cautionary tale from me? No.
Edit: proofreading better…
frpm me?
Too late, cautionary tale learned. Jk.
My phone keyboard is bad. Fantastically bad. I suck at proofreading, but shit is it bad.
Anyway, cleaning up my terrible editing. Thanks for highlighting it. 😀
Any time! I make typos constantly, so feel free to point mine out in turn.
I second this
You’re thinking of envy, not jealousy so much: Envy is when you want something someone else has, jealousy is when you don’t want others to have what you have.
I wouldn’t want people to be jealous of me, people act very poorly when they are jealous.
Emphatically no. I cut people concerned with jealousy out of my life. That shit’s toxic.
I remember your handle - IIRC you posted before about having Narcissistic Personality Disorder. Wanting people to be jealous of you seems apropos.
I dont know you, but this sounds like narcissistic personality disorder.
It’s a common symptom of it.
No, i wouldn’t like to be a center of attention.
Nah. I’d rather go unnoticed by everyone outside those I love.
Nah I’d rather they leave me the fuck alone and focus on their own shit. But I have nothing for anyone to be jealous of I don’t think.
But I have nothing for anyone to be jealous of I don’t think.
The thing about jealousy isn’t it ain’t about the object, it is all about “muhh feels”
And you would surprised how deranged people can get lol
The older you get, the less you care.
After 30, it is very hard to give a fuck about anything beyond having a fat bank account to care of your dependants.
Idk man, I’m past 30 and I care less that I have money and mode that everyone I love has what they need.
I’m over 30 and see true wealth as a measure of the love I give and receive. You can’t buy that.
Yes exactly!
Only positive thing in jealousy is: that it would indicate, that I have something to value in my life.
nope nope nope. I want to be incredibly anonymous.
Only people I really dislike. For everyone else, no, I don’t need or want their jealousy.
Not really. I find when people are jealous they either try to cut you down in subtle ways, or they self deprecate and guilt trip just because you happen to have something going right for you.
I’d like to be admirable, I think. I’d prefer to rub off on people in a positive way than a negative one.
No, I don’t want to attract thieves and weird fans.
No; jealousy paints a target on your back. I’d rather people wish well for me and feel that my victories are at least indirectly theirs.
Failing that, I’d want others to be unaware of my existence.