• djsoren19@yiffit.net
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    8 days ago

    Would bet any amount of money that the kinda idiot who posts a greentext like this on 4chan thinks that they’ve no responsibility to make their partner feel loved after a so-called “honeymoon phase.”

    People can get complacent in their relationships and take the people they have around them for granted. I don’t stay with people who treat me like that, no matter how long I’ve been with them, and I support and respect anyone who feels the same.

  • Sergio@slrpnk.net
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    8 days ago

    “There are as many forms of love as there are moments in time.” Jane Austen

  • xor@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    8 days ago

    i think it’s something to do with support groups and stuff… some people just want that sense of community so bad they’ll act like they were abused to get it.

    happened to me once…, was in a relationship for years, was good, broke up, stayed good friends for years… moved away… called her one day and suddenly i was abusive and the relationship was fucked up.
    (i swear to god i wasn’t… barely had any arguments at all, and they were never mean or anything… her story of lying to me about me even changed over time… i think she gaslit herself)