• Skyline969@lemmy.ca
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          When you get bedbugs and want to prevent them from getting on your bed (after treatment, say) you pull your bed away from the wall, thus limiting the surfaces they can transfer from. If you also put your bedposts in interceptor traps you’re pretty safe from them. They’ll get stuck in the traps and be unable to get out.

          Source: had to deal with the bastards for a year because of a useless landlord and incompetent exterminator. Got really, really good at pest management.

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              A headboard touching the ground just invites them in. If the headboard is removable, remove it temporarily.

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                  Yes, but some are removable. If you can’t remove it you’re pretty much screwed - good luck getting a headboard inside of an interceptor trap. Just the bedposts, wheels, or whatever the frame has go into the traps. Basically you need to limit the access they have from wherever they’re hiding to your bed.

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            I heard that they can climb to the ceiling and drop down. Not sure how true it is, but helps to enforce how nightmarish they are, like they are some sort of unstoppable entity.

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              I’ve heard that too, but it seems pretty unlikely and I never experienced it when I had bedbugs. Plus it would have to be a pregnant(?) bedbug to continue to spread the infestation, otherwise the rare one that dropped on the bed would be stuck there and eventually die…

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              I dunno if they’re quite that smart. If they are, they didn’t do that when I had them.

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      Me. I don’t need my bed clapping against the wall alerting my incredibly nosy neighbors to my evening activities.

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    Stay up longer. Wake up tired. Do your job really half-assed all day. Let your employer have the worse you.

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      Did this while younger, it can work for some time but don’t underestimate the consequences to your health from not getting enough sleep.

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    Get up at 6. Work will 6. 1hr to make dinner. 2 hrs awake with wife. Go to bed at 9. Wake up at 530 and cry for 30 min.

    Rerpeat adinfinium until i finally die. This is no way to live.

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      This is no way to live.

      I wonder what would happen if everyone who felt this way all at once just decided to stop. All at once, everyone turns around and goes home. How many people would it be? Half? 3/4? Most of them?

      We almost got to experience a change when Covid hit, the only bright spot, but it was soon eclipsed by corporate buzzwords and inspirational music montages on powerpoint telling us how happy we are to return to offices and ten hours of driving and 1/8 of our paycheck on gas every goddamn week so we can sit in a visible place while we waste time reading emails that don’t pertain to us and attending meetings about initiatives that are meant only to make the shareholders think we’re doing something.

      Shareholders who attend the meetings via Zoom at that.

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        I’m working towards just this, not a tent necessarily but a very small house/shack, gonna get some dogs and chickens and probably work at a local grocery or do art until I die.

        I am not making much progress. I wonder who tf is buying houses.

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        You could afford to work part time remotely

        If you’re a professional that even has that option. Factory workers and blue collar schmucks like myself are chained to a radius around available work :(

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            The point is to work less not avoid work completely. I’m unable to work 100% remotely for the time being, rural internet is still a joke most places.

            I’m just saying it’s not so simple and still requires an incredible amount of work, saving, and sacrifice to “just retire to an acre and get some chickens.”

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    This is 100% truth.

    When you’re young, you have a lot of free time and no money to enjoy that time

    When you get into a career, you have money, and no time.

    When you retire, you have money and time (to some extent), but you’re old and likely not able to enjoy things nearly as much as you would have been able to when you were younger (generally due to body aches and whatnot).

    Being middle/lower “class”, you’re basically fucked.

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        Father of 3 kids under 6, I still play an hour or so a day, some weekends I get a night to play with friends.

        And I have time for work in commercial electrician. Come home to work on my garden, chickens, greenhouse, and hang with the kids and family.

        Going to be doing my own solar in the next week or two. Tonight going to a mtg mh3 event with a friend to play some magic.

        All weekend to chill with my children, wife, and enjoy some parks. Once kids are asleep I’ll watch a movie with my wife.

        Life is good. Time for everything.

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          Are you guys dual income though? How do you have time to keep your home clean? I don’t even have kids but with full time work I struggle.

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            I’m full time (40 hours) and my wife is a stay at home mom. She might work in the summer for delta airlines as a gate agent but that’s if the season allows for it. Either way that income is less than $5k for the year so it’s not for the money, but the flight benefits.

            The home being clean… Well we let a lot of things get surface dirty because cleaning after the kids is a full time job in and of itself. We’ll deep clean once a week, dishes are cleaned right away, toys after you’re done, beds, sheets, carpets and deep floor weekly. We got a system. My wife does an amazing job. I make sure our vacuums work lol.

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              Agree on the taking care of the place full time job piece! My partner and I are just starting to think about kids, and are most worried about the extra work in making sure things stay clean enough to be safe.

              Granted, I’ve had a whole lot of health issues (just completed surgery 5/5 in the last 5 years) so a lot of home maintenance fell by the wayside. We’re also both full time (42 hours minimum) and on top of that I have at least 4 medical appointments weekly still, so we are just in the process of getting a system going.

              Thank you for sharing what works for you!

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                Oh wow yeah that sounds like a hand full. Health becomes a problem for us. If one of us gets sick for a few days it gets pretty rough. We don’t have too much time to go out, and my wife and I haven’t really went on too many dates since our 3rd was born. But we’re both on the same page that it’s part of the season we’re in. I’m busy maybe 3 days a week and that already makes it rough, but I can’t imagine if my week was full of appointments.

                Don’t worry about being too clean for the kids. The first one is always going to be the learning curve, and we’ve been there with the ultra clean everything. Germs and chokeables. Now on our 3rd we’re a lot more lax, being more observant when it’s necessary. But you will drive yourself crazy picking every speck off the ground lol.

                But ultimately my wife and I are a team. And if there’s anything that becomes too hard for us it’s because we weren’t on the same page about it. Life moves forward. Children are the best thing that ever happened to us. And our hobbies didn’t disappear, we got new ones and old ones either aren’t interesting anymore or adapted to fit. You’ll never be 100% ready. If you and your partner want children, let that child grow with you.

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        Yep I got one and videogames aren’t even in my radar. I don’t even have a gaming computer anymore

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    It’s easy! Just take 100% of your free time and throw it away on a far-off dream so you’re completely exhausted. Go into debt trying to get a fancy degree to maybe increase your earning potential.

    More seriously, if you feel you’re in the same position:
    If you’re privileged enough and have the willpower, you might be able to find a happier work environment (though it requires sacrificing your already meager free time by searching for jobs constantly for 6-12 months or more). I know folks for whom that’s paid off - very impressed with them. May also be some online courses or community colleges around that could open doors.

    If your situation is impossible, I’m sorry. I feel for you.

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      Fucking pathetic. I hope you don’t actually feel this way, mindset is literally the biggest obstacle.

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        Feel what way?

        I am privileged and happy. I do believe folks who are not happy should consider investing their time understanding other potential available opportunities including work, training, and higher education.

        Obviously a, say, severely disabled person whose paycheck is captured by their abusive partner cannot apply my advice, so in that nearly impossible situation I sympathize.

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        Seeing reality for what it is and not giving up is the opposite of pathetic. Pathetic is assuming someone who sees life that way is going to be overcome by their mindset. Denial isn’t necessary to function.

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    He only has two hours after work before he has to go to sleep? That’s like a 70 hour work week!

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    Here’s the trick: just sleep less! You’ll get more time to play games do chores, stare at the ceiling in existential dread find yourself, and slowly lose your sanity as sleep deprivation begins to bring your worst nightmares to life sleep deeper in the precious hours.