• Septimaeus@infosec.pub
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    9 months ago

    Positive sexual experience. There’s all kinds of potentially helpful advice floating around, like not taking porn seriously, but IMO nothing dispels fiction-based anxiety better than reality.

    How you go about that is your own adventure, but if you want a practical tip on where to begin, I heartily recommend focusing on manual and oral sex first.

    1. It’s a more direct route to giving your partner an orgasm
    2. Skill in that area sets you apart, far moreso than simply a bigger penis
    3. Learning that you can easily satisfy someone with your hands tied, so to speak, will give you confidence when you don’t
    4. If you give someone orgasms this way, and for whatever reason don’t get yours, it’s a good bet you’ll be asked back for round 2 soon after

    Finally, if/when you do proceed to pound-town, you may find your partner is very ready to enjoy the hell out of whatever you’re packing.

    GLHF,

    Skeletor