For context, see research by Myers, D., 1993 (which I can’t find a link to at the moment) about differences in satisfaction in couples in India in arranged marriages and couples in Amerikkka in marriages of choice, and compare it with the later research Myers, 2005.

More specifically to your statement about auntie zeroing in on something, see MacDonald & Ross, 1999.

Was a cop, now I’m in EMS. Much better mentality, even with a shittier job environment.

Yep, that was the only reason I finally pulled the trigger. What makes me laugh is it wasn’t even about windows, it was because of fucking CHROME.